Kindred

Mei Tan

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

I work with adults and couples balancing family expectations, cultural identity, anxiety, and relationship change. My style is warm and direct, with room for both reflection and practical experiments between sessions.

  • Emotion-focused therapy
  • Attachment-based therapy
  • Cognitive behavioral therapy

Practice details

Languages
English, Mandarin
Availability
Online appointments Monday through Thursday, with in-person sessions in San Francisco on Tuesdays and Wednesdays.
Service formats
Online, In person
Locations and jurisdictions
California, United States

Specializations

Anxiety · Intergenerational relationships · Couples counseling · Cultural identity

Who I work with

Adults · Couples

Get to know me

The kind of client I work especially well with
People who look capable on the outside but feel caught between their own needs and the expectations of people they love.
What our first session feels like
Structured but unhurried. I will ask what is happening now, what you have already tried, and what would make therapy useful.
A belief that shapes my work
Relationships can be both the source of old patterns and the place where new, healthier experiences begin.
My approach in three words
Warm, candid, collaborative.
What progress can look like
Speaking more honestly, recovering from conflict faster, and making choices without abandoning your values or yourself.

Licenses

  • Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

    LMFT-DEMO-1101

    California, United States

Education

  • MS in Marriage and Family Therapy

    San Francisco State University

    2017

  • BA in Psychology

    University of California, Davis

    2013